This sub does not support Reddit's abrupt and poorly handled API changes, nor their strong-arm tactics in forcing subs to re-open following the protest which included over 5000 subreddits that went dark. It's your body, do what makes you happy. My husband confessed to using an escort once, though it wasn't to lose his virginity. I lost mine to an escort when i was 100% sure being still V at 28 was due to a bad family background+shortage of women in my area+Pandemic hampering new bonds combo issue. You're doing both of. Most of my classmates (50-60%), lost their virginities in college, between 18-23 years of age. • 9 yr. tl;dr: a christian 30 year old virgin (m) decides to hire an escort girl to lose his virginity. She said she knew a spot by a pond. I lost my virgnity to an escort last weekend. [NSFW] So, I'm a 20 year old guy. 866K subscribers in the AMA community. You will regret not waiting. " I wasn't trying to be tense, I was trying to do kegals cuz I heard it's good during sex. Crypto If I'm still a virgin by 25 though maybe my attitude changes, but I'm trying to not let that happen. The date isn't quid pro qou, if the woman sleeps with you it's by choice. Been there, done that. After a couple instances of screwing up with girls I had been texting, I responded like a child, decided that I was sick of being a. Challenge yourself to grow as a. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. I lost my virginity to an escort ($300) at age 26. I've heard that having sex isn't the be-all and end-all, but I want to experience it for myself. I am just. I had hyped sex up to be this massive thing, like it would be the best thing ever and all that. If you want to lose your virginity, and dont care who it is, just meet some guy, app or otherwise. 2. Marcos came along, dragged again to the auto hotel against his will. What was losing your virginity like? NSFW : r/AskReddit. In terms of a sub for losing your virginity I updated my post because I blanked on that one. Regarding the escort that's a fair point. So I put all of my focus into my grades. It happens on here and has happened in real life. Getting a hookup on a dating app is incredibly hard. I'm writing this for the guys who have given up hope or are feeling depressed. This kind of deprivation is torture. If he has regrets that’s an issue he’ll have to solve on his own. He may be charming, indulgent and kind- but always keep in mind, this is what his work is. Virginity as a concept is utter bullshit. Plus the girl is paid and makes a good living. I remember also thinking sex would be some crazy transformative experience, but really, it's just another thing to do. Hi, Just thought I would talk about my experience, for the all adult virgins out there. I graduated high school this year. All-in $190. Talk to him for a little to feel him out, meet him to make sure you're attracted, and have sex with him. 0 regrets and I don't feel damaged. It was still with a woman, who, whatever else you may say, had willing sex with you. He feels relieved and more comfortable around women afterwards. Or a guy losing his virginity to a sex. I lost my virginity when I was 22 (I'm 24 now); I remember before then, I would often think that I was less of a person because I wasn't a virgin. However, anything I do afterwards I could end up regretting (like making this a habit at such an early age). You're gonna be nervous and anxious and self-conscious with the next girl even if you do hook-up with an escort. And confidence combined with closeness and contact should lead to kissing, preferably in the middle of your encounter, or sooner. Same thing happened to me when I lost my virginity to a sex worker. I been getting more numbers, dates, kisses, etc but have yet to far in the bedroom. ago. I’m 30, I lost it at 16 and I remember it for what it was but it’s not like some defining moment. I went back about 10 or so times over the next 2 years (Not the same girl). It will, give it time. And after two months of research, I hired an escort to lose my v-card. My best friend and I lost our virginity together in the same bed LMAO. Yeah, I'd probably still date him. The experience did jolt, or remind me about whats important in life: to have fun, to be playful, to relax, to. Sometimes it was good. ago. Other young men who lost their virginity to sex workers have have written that. Escorts skirt the line between legal and illegal, and as such rules and procedures have been made to protect those involved. Just be a gentleman and be proud of yourself for having the courage to do what you want instead of what society has failed to give you. Seriously, you are inexperienced, have little confidence, and will probably have no idea what you are doing. You having a stigma losing your virginity to one is absurd for me. But he also got robbed once and got the switch-a-roo twice. 2nd sex worker I realized I last 30-40 minutes, I wasn’t nervous, and she didn’t rush at all. Virginity as a concept is utter bullshit. Spend plenty of time on foreplay. Not really perfect though --- Max * will have sex for the first time . But the escort seemed to be rushing things (which further affected me. I think you’re mistaken. I tried to console her and tell her that she was actually pretty sexy, and not be too hard on herself. You might become acquainted with certain, uh, smells, but that's about it. I had decided a while ago that I was sick of the V-card and wanted to get rid of it. I have people that mock me as a virgin. Russell Brand describes losing his virginity to a prostitute as, "not sexual, just giggly and intrusive. We both collapsed in laughter and then, well, we kissed. Down to 280 pounds since the last post, Mexican virgin with a bearish body looking for someone to trade in my V-Card with and maybe a good hug or two. Was a virgin this. I graduated high school this year. Was I safe? Yes. The only thing that’s going to be different is that you’ve had a new experience and your wallet will be lighter for it. That's all. In fact, they have acronyms like DFK (deep french kiss) and LFK (light french kiss) as a part of their offerings. It probably won't help your self-esteem. This is my experience. I remember laying there and him mentioning "don't be so tense. I randomly got the idea of just hiring an escort and losing my virginity then. You're not a jar that expires once the seal is broken. I've made out with several girls here, including a girl I met DAYS after I lost my virginity (and now I just realized it was more like five days ago). She knew my struggles because we had (and still have) a close relationship. All my friends had lost their virginity long ago except me. I kissed a boy the same time she did. tl;dr: a christian 30 year old virgin (m) decides to hire an escort girl to lose his virginity. Most escorts do let you kiss them. I am just feeling so disgusted with myself that I just threw away my virginity like that in such an immoral way. Los Angeles escort - 18-24 - Caucasian. It's just a business transaction. Same. Just wanted to share my experience of losing my virginity to an escort for anyone here who had some thoughts about that pathway. Someone’s first sexual contact may be an unfamiliar sensation. Lost virginity to escort. Look them up on the internet in your area, give them a phonecall, pay them upfront, have only protected sex with them (condom mandatory), leave. Have had a couple times where Women didn't want to continue things further because I was a. That's when they have a completely different woman in the pics, on the phone, and who shows up. I did the first time with an escort and I’m not embarrassed. How you feel about losing your virginity to an escort depends on how you feel about sex, and sex work. I lost my virginity late in life as well. It is losing your virginity, unfortunately. At the end of the day, escorts are still women. I didn't lose my virginity, or even kiss a girl, until I was 21. . To answer your question: yes. 8K comments. Now you can! This is a subreddit devoted to education, outreach, and harm reduction. It won't teach you how to hold a good conversation, how to lead, how to handle logistics, etc. CryptoI was in a similar situation as you. But he also got robbed once and got the switch-a-roo twice. You want an escort, not a prostitute. I used protection throughout, so that is not what I am worried about. ago. The fact that you talk about “relying” on escorts is kind of a huge, blinking clue that this goes a little deeper than wanting to experience the physical act of sex and much more about. What happened and how I felt about it were really unexpected. It won't teach you to gain confidence by taking action. Prostitution is normal and legal where I live. I'm 23 male, social awkward. The sex was ok but made me realised that it’s not what I’m looking for… Additionally make me paranoid that I got HIV or STI . Normally escorts are much more lenient with you if you are a virgin but it’s up to you if you wanna reveal that. This is where you can ask all the questions you've wanted to ask an escort, but never had the ability to. It’s a cliche for a young man to lose his virginity to an escort. Sure, there’s an issue with your plan. Losing virginity to escort (Big Regret) I decided to do it after reading some posts here but it’s the biggest regret of my life. It's as old as time and safer than ever. Get close to her and get both of you comfortable with your closeness and physical contact. It's hard for a male to lose virginity because being a virgin is at odds with being a man. . I have. I’ve given up on trying to find a boyfriend. Since I was 12 I don't think a day had went by when I didn't daydream about making love to a beautiful girl. Sex is a funny thing- these little feelings start developing, no matter how transactional the process. I lost my virginity to an escort about 3 months ago. I wouldnt even say i regret it. I lost my virginity to an escort in December last year (at the age of 27). Because I can tell you now, you're not gonna know much more than you know now after one sesh with an escort. What happened and how I felt about it were really unexpected. He clearly meant that he lost his virginity IN his school’s gymnasium. So now Im in my mid-30s and I'm fucking desperate. I'm an avid gamer usually playing party games with friends or fighting games. by Awkward_Web_9961. Business, Economics, and Finance. I also clearly mentioned this in the WhatsApp chat we had before we met. It might look like a sacred stuff but it is not. Admit your virginity. If you think that having sex with someone who doesn't care about how you feel when it's most likely going to be painful even if you guys are slow and careful, then sure. I lost my virginity late in life as well. 2. Oh man, this a thousand times over. Sort by: [deleted] • 11 yr. Let me be clear, I think that the way that we engage in. I’ve been thinking for about a yr now to book an escort to get rid of my V card, but never found the courage to actually do it. So I can see how getting that first one out the way might relive some pressure and the feeling like your running out of time. 3K votes, 1. SistaSaline • 4 yr. So ladies and gentlemen of reddit, if you were dating someone would it be a problem if they lost their virginity to a hooker? Is this something I should just keep secret, or be open about? I'm not currently in a relationship, but my last post got removed for not saying how long my relationship is, so I will add this fictional relationship. I'd rather pay, have peace and quiet the rest of the time, and get the added benefit of some variation. Buddy, I get it. The reason I was an older virgin is because I was raised in a religious cult. Focus on something OTHER THAN PLEASURE for 10 minutes. I lost my virginity to a prostitute and would say it was a valuable experience. He feels relieved and more comfortable around women afterwards. Losing virginity to escort (Big Regret) I decided to do it after reading some posts here but it’s the biggest regret of my life. We did all the positions too. At 32 yo, I don't think I wanna wait for that "special someone" anymore. It happens on here and has happened in real life. My anxiety which is my insecurity kills me. Sure, there’s an issue with your plan. There was no embarrassment or shame. I'm (31F) a virgin who's never been in a relationship. tldr indeed - ok to be a virgin or not but losing virginity with an escort is an excellent way to lose it without too much awkwardness. . I'm kind of shocked that there's advice to say you got drunk and can't remember, as if that's a better situation. . Do you come clean and say it was from an escort? Do you say it was from a one night stand? Or do u say you're still a virgin? • 9 yr. NSFW. The sex was ok but made me realised that it’s not what I’m looking for… It sounds like you like the idea of an escort that you created in your head over the reality of it. Those moments right before you do it for the first time, when you know it’s about to happen, are really exciting! You’re a bit nervous, a bit unsure. I considered going to a escort and even tried to go meet one but just couldn't bring myself to go into the bar where she was supposed to. The best way to make sure you never lose your virginity is to try to lose your virginity. Never in my life had I seen a naked woman in front of me, despite having had some relationships in the past, the only intimacy I had was a handshake, hugs and kisses. So I (29 M) just lost my virginity to an escort in my city. Found a girl who looks really hot, 100$ (most are 200+) and lives 10 mins driving. Yeah, I'd probably still date him. Also, if you have to pay $300 for a date, and only $300 for an escort. I'm not very judgmental about sex stuff, as long as there's honesty. I was and am so frustrated because of that. Not really perfect though --- Max * will have sex for the first time . read up on escort laws in your area as well; you aren't going to lose your virginity to an undercover cop. View community ranking In the Top 1% of largest communities on Reddit. Even though I didn't feel burdened or at a disadvantage due to my virginity, I did think that it would be awkward my first time. There is 5 guys for every woman and not that many are looking for casual sex. A sex worker does it because it's their job. I'm 18 years old and lost my virginity to a prostitute tonight. I got out of the cult in my late 20s but had residual emotional resistance that kept me from finding a sexual partner. Most of our friends lost virginity in that place the same day and some even to same woman. Deep down I still had fear and guilt. SWIM also lost his virginity to a prostitute when he was 18. Make it mean something, and lose it with the right person. 35 and still a virgin. I first had sex at 23, wasn't really aiming to but didn't object to it either. .